Younger Couples Feel the Pressure

The data also suggests that age plays a role in how emotionally charged design decisions become. Nearly half (46%) of over-55s say they’ve never argued over interiors, pointing to a more laid-back approach.

In contrast, among 25–34-year-olds, tensions are notably higher. A third say they’ve argued about both budget (33%) and wall colours (33%), suggesting younger couples may feel more pressure to get things “right” - even if it leads to conflict.

Expert Advice for Harmonising Your Home

To help couples move from conflict to collaboration, Hovia’s Art Director Lauren Kavanagh shares her expert tips for navigating the top décor disagreements:

Budget (31%)

“Start by being upfront about your financial limits and agree on what's essential versus what’s nice to have. Listing priorities together can help avoid tension later. To make your money go further, consider DIY upgrades or shopping second-hand. Small savings can add up without compromising on style.”

Wall Colours (31%)

“Choosing colours can be difficult, so try narrowing options down to a curated palette you both feel drawn to, then test a few samples. A neutral base is often a safe and flexible choice. Add personality with bolder accents through artwork, soft furnishings, or accessories.”

Paint vs. Wallpaper (26%)

“Paint offers flexibility and allows for quick updates, while wallpaper brings depth, character, and a lasting sense of style. If you’re undecided, consider wallpapering a single feature wall and painting the rest. This kind of compromise creates visual interest without overwhelming the space.”

Room Layout (24%)

“Before jumping into aesthetics, focus on how the space needs to function day to day. Think practically: do you need more seating, better lighting, or improved flow? Sketching ideas or using online planning tools together can help you land on a layout that works for both form and function.”

Furniture Choices (23%)

“Try mixing styles to reflect both of your personalities. Contemporary furniture can be softened with vintage touches, or vice versa. Agree on where it’s worth investing, like a durable sofa or quality bed, then take turns selecting smaller décor items to keep things balanced and fair.”

Overall Aesthetic (21%)

“If you’re struggling to land on a shared look, start by pulling together a Pinterest board with ideas you both like. Once you’ve spotted some common ground, create a second board that pulls in your favourite colours, textures and styles. Mixing both of your tastes can lead to something that feels personal and unique to you.”